Breast and Formula Feeding Together Schedule
Isn't it confusing sometimes whether you should feed your baby on demand or put her on a schedule? As many things with parenting, everyone has their two cents and opinion and your mind spins with the possibilities. This article will talk about schedules for breastfeeding and formula-feeding babies.
Rigid schedules for breastfeeding babies? What about formula-feeding babies?
The main thing about schedules for breastfeeding or formula-feeding babies is that I want to tell you today that a schedule is only as rigid as you make it. Just because you set your alarm for 6:30 a.m. does not mean you don't hit snooze 2 3 a few times does it? Just because you tell your friend you want to meet for lunch at 12 doesn't mean you can't call her and tell her you're starving and ask if you can meet at 11:45, instead, right? So, the first thing about schedules for any baby, not just breastfeeding babies, is that you do not have to be married to the clock to the point you are running a boot camp.
How rigid you make your schedule generally depends on your particular personality. I am, personally, a Type-A personality (INTJ for you Myers Briggs people, except I am sometimes an "E" oddly enough). A Type-A personality is generally much more conscious of the time on the clock and, being an INTJ, I generally need to know what time it is at all times (generally you would wear a watch, but my cell phone now does the job just fine, now). Basically, I am a planner. I like to know roughly what I am doing every day and this includes on vacation (I'm sure, on vacation, my mother-in-law thought it was crazy to think about dinner when we just had lunch LOL). I honestly can't help it.
So, when I birthed a highly unpredictable, inconsistent baby, this essentially drove me a little crazy. BUT, he was also unable to get on a schedule until he was older (past 7 months, in fact!). I just had to deal and like many things you imagine go differently in your head before you actually have a baby, I had to adjust my thinking.
Nope, he didn't get hungry at the same times every day.
Nope, he didn't wake up at the same times every day. EVER.
Nope, he couldn't go 3 hours between breastfeeding sessions at a young age, like the books told me he could, and he NEVER got to 4 hours. EVER. (He can barely do it now and I suspect it's a blood sugar thing.)
Yet, I still had a "schedule" which I now call a "routine" of feeding him every X hours based on his age and abilities as well as sleep after Y hours, based on his behavior / sleepy cues, age, and sensitivity to over-tiredness (which got better as he got older). That doesn't mean that if he was hungry sooner I would make him wait, or force-feed him if he wasn't hungry until later (he rarely refused breastfeeding anyway!).
As your baby grows older, he will generally become more predictable (if he didn't start out that way) as his brain and nervous system mature and sleep organizes, even if it's never identical to the day before. We, eventually, did get to a true by-the-clock schedule. Keep in mind that I did have to modify my own natural tendency and do what worked best for my baby. And, some babies actually function a lot better on a more predictable routine and schedule, even if your natural tendency is to "go with the flow."
Some babies are SO easy-going that they won't cry when they get hungry! And, if you don't have a rough schedule, you could actually be skipping feedings, when you shouldn't. Rare, but true. Slow to adapt babies generally enjoy more predictability and many will thrive on the sometimes elusive eat-play-sleep routine from a very young age.
Feed on demand or on a schedule?
There is not just one answer here to the question of whether you breastfeed / formula-feed on demand or feed on schedule. I fed on demand for quite awhile, because it was what worked best for my son and made the most sense to me, at the time. It's not like he could go into the pantry and get a snack anytime he wanted. To this day, he eats more frequent, smaller meals. He has a very fast metabolism and he is very high energy.
HOWEVER, breastfeeding a baby every two hours during the day past the newborn phase is not always a good idea. I have had clients with babies who have not gained enough weight, because if you feed more frequently, your baby may not be getting the richer, higher calorie, and fattier hindmilk. For those parents, the answer was to start spacing out feedings so their baby would take a fuller feeding and get that hindmilk. This brings me to my next point:
Just because your baby hasn't gotten on a schedule on his own, does not mean he can't.
When it comes to sleep, just like waiting too long to put your baby down can lead to short naps when she's younger, putting her down too soon when she's younger can result in short naps, too! Confusing, I know.
The bottom line is that all babies and families have different needs and it's okay if you don't know THE answer for you, yet. Take some time to experiment with your baby's routine and schedule. There is a lot related to parenting that is "learn as you go" and I don't think schedules for your breastfeeding or formula-feeding baby are any different. Oh, and just when you figure it out, they change anyway! 😀
Because I was a breastfeeding mom, all of our sample sleep and feeding schedules are appropriate for both breastfeeding and formula-feeding parents (and combination). These are just guidelines and designed to give you ideas to make your own schedule, so please review them and post your own for the thousands of visitors that frequent this site.
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Did you have a schedule for your breast-fed baby?
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